Here is what I’ve learned so far…
1. A person rarely will do something just once. Why? Because people have patterns and patterns never lie.
I’ve was dating someone once and I noticed their words weren’t matching their actions so naturally I confronted him and he told me to watch his actions, he kept it real even though it didn’t benefit him. That has always stuck with me.
A persons actions tell a persons true intentions. Watch what they do not what they say.
“A man is as he does “ said by somebody
2. The unfortunate truth is that many people don’t often change or don’t want to.
Sometimes what you see is what you get
We get it sometimes you have to teach people how to treat you but at a certain point it gets exhausting.
Especially if someone continues to repeat the same “mistake” over and over after you’ve spoken to them about the issue.
3. Very often people know what there doing to you and for those that are just not self aware of themselves and are set in their ways sometimes that even worse.
A wise person once set “if I’m too much then go find less”
And I’ve applied that in the reverse. I decided to seek people out in my life that are less of what I don’t want and more of what I do.
Perfect people don’t exist but I can certainly find that already have similar morals, character and interests at the very least.
People that I don’t have to teach how to be a decent human being.